I finally wrote a thing. Finally. Be nice.
You know I’m big on finding a Happy Day Moment each day, living with gratitude, focusing on joy.
You know I have big feelings about finding a HDM.
I post a Happy Day Moment on my personal Facebook page (up to #2831 consecutive ones!) and I post something inspirational/motivational/encouragement on my Happy Day Moment Page because I’m determined to remember the preciousness of life.
Because I’m determined to choose gratitude.
Because even with all the stuff of 2017, even my father’s death, even my struggles to keep trusting and believing when I don’t understand the whys of certain situations … because …
Because … I’m determined to believe this:
How beautiful upon the mountains are the feet of him who brings good news, who publishes peace, who brings good news of happiness, who publishes salvation, who says to Zion, “Your God reigns.” ~ Isaiah 52:7
So, because even “life,” even “stuff,” I’m determined to choose gratitude, to publish “good news of happiness” on Facebook. 😊
It’s true – I’m a positive person by nature. And it’s true if you’re not naturally easy-going or cheery, you may have to work a little harder to discover a HDM. Not everyone is programmed to be Pollyanna or Little Miss Sunshine. Maybe you’re a bit Scrooge-ish or a glass-half-empty person. It’s hard to become that peppy sunny person if it isn’t in your making. Whether your life is disappointing, whether there’s unexpected hardship, whether there’s heartache, it’s hard to get out of a bad mood once it’s taken hold of you. The good news is that you can work at discovering a “happy day moment” even if gloominess is more your disposition. You can work at choosing gratitude. Good things often take time and effort. Bless God, living with gratitude can come when we develop a habit, a discipline, when we choose to see little small happy actions/words/sights that are always there – somewhere – every day.
So, why not choose gratitude?
From my HDM Posts/Twitter throughout 2017
Why not try out these little changes that could change you from negative to cheerful in no time.
- Tell someone, “You make everything lovely.”
- Concentrate on what you have, not on what you don’t have.
- Be the person who decides to go for it.
- Be kind to unkind people because they need it most.
- No matter what others say or do, stay committed to being kind.
- Be quiet while others speak.
- Let your smile today lift someone’s life.
- Trust God’s wisdom, even though you want to do it differently.
- Let gratitude be more that an act; let it be a habit.
- Practice relentless gratitude.
- Let go of trying to change the people around you.
- Let’s choose to speak kindness.
- Do a little thing today to show your loved ones that you care.
- Let’s banish our angry words and bring out the welcome mat for kindness and mercy.
- Don’t think of others as problems, but as people to be loved.
- Stay kind and committed to love, no matter what others do.
- Don’t look backwards for very long. Keep moving forward.
- Show your love in meaningful ways.
- Treat others with kindness no matter how they differ from you.
- Notice the people around you who seem isolated and engage them.
- Touching someone you love actually reduces pain. Give a hug today.
- All that beauty you see in others, tell them about it.
And why not remember these little observations that could change you from powerless to strong in no time.
- Don’t get caught up in what could’ve or should’ve been.
- There are times when bitter trials become blessings in disguise.
- Let’s pull back our judgments and reach out our hands.
- God is close to all who call on Him.
- It is well with my soul. (The day my Dad died)
- Never cling to the notion that something’s not possible.
- Some of our strength would never be discovered if not for our struggles and trials.
- Acts of love can thaw a frozen heart.
- God’s faithful love never ends.
- Everything starts with a dream.
- Whatever God calls you to do, He will equip you.
- You’ll never regret being true to your dreams.
- God’s love is complete and He’s aware of your circumstances.
- When we put kindness first, good things happen.
- A peaceful person is not one who’s always in a good place, but one who always has a good attitude in every place.
- Remember to thank people for their time.
- Being generous and kind, even in circumstances where it’s hard.
- We can’t go back and make a new beginning, but we can start over and make a new ending.
- Don’t let failure go to your heart.
- Where you can help, help. Where you can give, give.
- Every week has seven days. Someday is not one of them.
- God heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds.
- Let’s be patient with others and smile at strangers.
- Kindness and compassion can heal wounds and restore peace.
- We always have the ability to be kind.
- The best stories end with gratitude.
- Remembering to be grateful is a form of emotional intelligence.
- So often we don’t realize what we have. Pause and be grateful.
- Let gratitude be something that you are. Not just doing, but being.
- Open your eyes to see the wonderful things of our world.