Happy 40th Anniversary to my extraordinary husband, my sweetheart, my handsome man, my love who is compassionate giving strong intelligent witty quirky generous, my most dreamiest-prayer-answered man. The one I adore who loves God and family and friends with grace and humility and dignity.
1 Thank you for your love. This statement really sums up everything. Your love has carried me, nourished me, shaped me, encouraged me, comforted me for 40 years. And every day you say it: “I love you.”
2 Thank you for your faith. You have a quiet, unshakable faith in our Lord. You love God and you follow Jesus.
3 Thank you for your wisdom to say, “Plan A is always love and prayer.”
4 Thank you for our sons. What joys, what blessings. And thank you for living by example. Whew, my heart. Infinity emojis.
5 Thank you for your affection. Those kisses! Those hugs! Swoon! And not just for me. For your children. Your grandchildren. Family!
6 Thank you for your belief in me. You never said, “You can’t be a mother. You can’t have a baby. You can’t have another baby” because of my limitations.
7 Thank you for your support. Because when I wanted to stay at home with the children, you said “yes, you can do it.” Because when I started my business, you were my advocate and encourager.
8 Thank you for your forgiveness. Boy, I sure screw up a lot and it’s a relief that you forgive and we move on.
9 Thank you for lifting me up. Literally, when I’ve stumbled and face-planted. Spiritually, when I’ve doubted what’s next. Emotionally, when I’ve felt flattened. Always, you’re there to pick me up.
10 Thank you for being fun. Your humor. Your imagination. You are my man-kid.
11 Thank you for your brilliance. You are scary smart and I’m in awe that you know so much stuff. You are the valedictorian of Household Bigger.
12 Thank you for your wit. Like when, just concerning the temperature of the house, I ask, “Are you hot?” Short pause. “Uh, that would be your call, wouldn’t it?” Short pause. Short chuckle.
13 Thank you for your compliments. You are quick to tell me I’m beautiful and sexy. That amazes me. I’ll put on lip gloss for you.
14 Thank you for compromising. I’m the extrovert; you’re the introvert. And yet, you’ll go with me to parties. It’s a gift to me.
15 Thank you for your respect of my individuality. See above. You let me be who God created me to be.
16 Thank you for listening. Because, mercy, I’m a talker. But never once did you say talk to the hand. And never did you say I told you so.
17 Thank you for caring. Oh my, especially during my awful morning sickness. And then there was that whole menopause thing. And now this whole getting old thing.
18 Thank you for (getting better at) communicating. Well, we have to have something to work on. Ha.
19 Thank you for your generosity. Not only do you listen and buy presents of things your family will like, you find little gifts for others, friends, co-workers, and even children of my friends. I love that you’re The Lego Man to many small people.
20 Thank you for your patience. Slowly, she turns. Step by step. Inch by inch. (Embarrassing homage!)
21 Thank you for your compassion. For considering others before yourself. Not being hyperbolic…
22 Thank you for your thoughtfulness. Your kindness. It’s there. For so many. <insert excessive punctuation>
23 Thank you for making ordinary moments into happy moments. Strolling the aisles of Target. Watching Fred Astaire films. Sharing a grilled cheese sandwich. Daily being.
24 Thank you for working things out. When we are mad and frustrated and annoyed with each other. Over big stuff. Over petty stuff. We work it out. Together.
25 Thank you for your quiet steadiness. Your guidance. My North Star.
26 Thank you for protecting me. And I don’t just mean from spideys and all things crawly, but for protecting my heart.
27 Thank you for providing for your family. You always worked hard, and in jobs that were often challenging. But you went to work every day and rarely complained. I admire that.
28 Thank you for hot beverages. Michigan Cherry Coffee. Vanilla chai.
29 Thank you for facing problems with me. When there are events and circumstances and days that drive me to chocolate and Peeps and gluten and bacon, you held my hand and don’t let go.
30 Thank you for wiping away my tears. I am one leaky, emotional, sentimental, easily bruised, tender, mess of hormones. And you hand me tissues.
31 Thank you for accepting me just the way I am. No lie, I have issues. And you love the tattered package that is me.
32 Thank you for enjoying my company. We are all weird in some way.
33 Thank you for cheering for my teams. Well, at least the Ball State Cardinals and Indianapolis Colts. And all U.S. Olympic teams, especially curling. (And then there’s your teasing/tolerating/tormenting of my obsession with the Chicago Cubs.)
34 Thank you for smiling. And. Those. Blue. Eyes. You still melt my ice cream.
35 Thank you for going with the flow. Your mother’s advice.
36 Thank you for doing housework. It makes me the envy of my friends. High five.
37 Thank you for sanding all my rough edges. I give you a million points.
38 Thank you for your TLC, your attentiveness. Your sweetness to ask: “How can I help you?” “What do you need?”
39 Thank you that your heart is my home. Every place with you is a happy place. I love you so much my heart could explode into a bazillion pieces of joy and happiness.
40 Thank you for your true love/twue wuve. Because it’s not about how many days, months or years we’ve been together, it’s about how much we actually love each other every day.
What could I possibly give you to thank you for so many ways you’ve blessed me with your deep affection, your thoughtfulness, kindness, and praise? What could I possibly offer to thank you for all that you’ve done to brighten my life with your goodness and to make every day so much fun? There is nothing on earth I could give you that could ever be worth even part of all that you are, so what I will give you is all of the love in my heart.
